What To Do When You Don’t Know What To Wear
We've all experienced it – that moment when we stand before our wardrobe, gazing at the multitude of clothes, feeling overwhelmed about what to wear. It's an exasperating situation that can put a damper on your mood. To help you break free from this cycle, here are some valuable tips to help you decide on the perfect outfit.
Check the Occasion: Consider where you're going or what you'll be doing. The appropriate outfit can vary greatly depending on whether it's a casual day out, a formal event, a job interview, or a workout.
Check the Weather: Make sure your outfit suits the weather conditions. You wouldn't want to wear a heavy coat on a hot summer day or a light dress on a chilly winter evening.
Consider Your Mood: Sometimes, your mood can influence what you want to wear. Are you feeling energetic and vibrant, or do you prefer something more relaxed and comfortable? It is okay to let your feelings guide your choice.
Think About Comfort: Prioritize comfort. If you're going to be walking a lot, wear comfortable shoes. If you'll be sitting for extended periods, opt for something that won't be too constricting.
Go with Classics: If you're still unsure, stick with classic, timeless pieces. A white shirt, a classic blazer, a pair of well-fitting jeans, or a little black dress are versatile options that can work for many occasions.
Create Mix-and-Match Combos: Once you've identified your classic base items, experiment with different combinations to create mix-and-match outfits. Pair your essentials with various tops, shoes, and accessories to see what works well together. This will give you a range of versatile outfits to choose from.
Combine Different Fabrics: Experiment by combining different fabrications together such as wool, silk, linen and cotton to give dimension to your outfits and add some visual interest.
Consider Color Psychology: Different colors can evoke different emotions. For example, blue is often associated with calmness and confidence, while red is bold and attention-grabbing. Think about the message you want your outfit to convey.
Incorporate Trends Sparingly: While it's fun to experiment with fashion trends, don't let them overpower your personal style. Select a few key trend pieces each season and incorporate them into your established outfit formulas. This way, you can stay current, without losing your unique style.
Ask for Opinions: If you're still stuck, don't hesitate to ask a friend or family member for their opinion. Sometimes, an outside perspective can be very helpful. Many of my clients will send me a quick text to ask for my opinion and I am always more than happy to help!
Trust Your Instincts: Ultimately, trust your instincts. Wear what makes you feel good and confident. Your personal style is a reflection of your personality, so embrace it.
Plan Your Weekly Outfits: Dedicate some time each week to plan your outfits for the upcoming days. Use your documented outfit formulas that I give you during my Wardrobe Edit as a starting point and make adjustments based on the weather, your schedule, and your mood. Having a plan will save you time and reduce morning stress.
How I Can Help
Even armed with the above advice, it can be overwhelming to make a start. Let me help and guide you to find the joy in getting dressed. During my Wardrobe Edit I can go through each of the above steps with you. We will take a look at your existing wardrobe, sometimes, you might forget about pieces you haven't worn in a while, and they can inspire a new outfit ideas. We can then ascertain what items are missing from your wardrobe and source these items which will enable you to easily create a variety of outfits.
I will help you style an array of different outfits and show you the ways your essential items can be combined. We will take photos of your favorite combinations and note any styling tips or accessories that enhance the look. This visual record will help you remember your go-to outfit formulas. I will proceed to show you how to style and plan your outfits in advance. We can create a weekly or monthly wardrobe plan, which can save you time and stress in the morning.
Remember that there's no one-size-fits-all answer to what to wear. Fashion is a form of self-expression, so go with what feels right for you in the moment.
Let me help you break out of your style rut, create a collection of reliable outfit formulas, and make getting dressed a more enjoyable and efficient process.
Mia xx